As we answer a call to more self intimacy, there is an intercom voice that says "Be less performative!!", especially around the male gaze. And rightfully so. Men have infiltrated a sacred space, such as sexuality along with beauty, and have made it a commodity that caters to their enjoyment, and economically feasts off of self deprecating esteem. I remember when I was doing Only Fans and a someone asked me (regarding an idea I had), "What man is going to like that?" as if I really give a...

On this Christmas, I want to share some insight and name something very clearly. This is an address to the regularly seeded discontent with the female body. If you want to get back into the yumminess of your body, start here to create an unwavering foundation. I am positive that as a child, you knew what that was... It is important to understand how opposition works. It is difficult to avoid the disparaging relationship between religion and female pleasure because rituals practiced by...

All praises to the ancestral mother, Pomba Gira Photo by @awakened_inner_flame As a result of patriarchy, there is a feeling of safety...